[✇] felt the joy and the fear


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[✇] felt the joy and the fear

1. What did you do in 2013 that you'd never done before?

- experience a house fire
- fight ceaselessly with insurance companies
- attend 2 different weddings in under 48 hours
- ate at in n out burger!

2. Did you keep your new years' resolutions, and will you make more for next year?
I kind of forget what my resolutions were last year. "Do more crafts" I think did not come to pass, although I did knit a sweater for my sister for Christmas. Not as much in the branching out. In 2014 I would like to:

- travel outside the country
- work on my Urdu
- do some kind of paper craft

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?

4. Did anyone close to you die?

5. Which countries did you visit?
This one! A lot!

6. What would you like to have in 2014 that you lacked in 2013?
Can I just quote from last year for a hot second:
"Gosh. A stable routine. 2012 will be one of the most memorable years of my life, probably, but the sine wave of the year was a little dramatic for a pattern, I think. Just to live a life that I like that won't change in three months"

HAHHAHAHAHAH. HAHAHAH! THANKS FOR THAT CURSE, 2012 SELF! Christ on a cracker. I would like to have my home back, in 2014. That's basically the baseline of things that I want for next year. I want to not have to call six to eight different people and play bad cop to get any information ever about what is happening. HOME.

7. What dates from 2013 will remain etched upon your memory, and why?
March 21. Not fun times.

8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
Getting through this fucking thing.

9. What was your biggest failure?
Not taking care of myself. Taking stress out on others.

10. Did you suffer illness or injury?
My routine wisdom tooth removal went excitingly sideways enough that I spent my wedding anniversary in the emergency room, five days after the surgery.

11. What was the best thing you bought?
Probably my new computer, lots of replacement clothes. Tickets to Swan Lake in New York as a birthday present to myself!

12. Whose behaviour merited celebration?
Friends & family, as always. My new boss. Several friends who went above and beyond in helping me to not have a complete (instead of partial) meltdown this year.

13. Whose behaviour made you appalled and depressed?
My former boss. Thanks for all the anxiety!

14. Where did most of your money go?
Cleaning up a hundred different emergencies.

15. What were you really, really, really excited about?
My winter vacation!! Nerdburgh. The triathlon. Going to Swan Lake and the Nutcracker!

16. What song will always remind you of 2013?
"Safe and Sound", probably, on account of it playing NON-STOP during one ridiculous wedding weekend.

17. Compared to this time last year, are you:
a) Happier or sadder?


b) Bigger or smaller?

c) Richer or poorer?

18. What do you wish you'd done more of?
Talking to people.

19. What do you wish you'd done less of?
"Being a stress ball." - also a quote from last year. MAYBE NEXT YEAR I WILL IMPROVE ON THIS.

20. How will you be spending Christmas?
Spent it with my side of the family! It was perfect, except for where I hadn't finished knitting my sister's sweater and immediately took it back from her once she unwrapped the in progress number.

21. What was your favourite month of 2013?
mmm probably December! So many parties and hanging with people and seeing The Nutcracker twice and visiting family!!

22. Did you fall in love in 2013?

23. What was your favourite TV programme?
Family Tree, Brooklyn Nine-Nine, Broadchurch. I have still not made good on mental goals to watch Orange is the New Black or Orphan Black or Sleepy Hollow or or or

24. How did you see in the New Year?
I will be seeing it in with my in-laws!

25. Do you hate anyone now that you didn't hate this time last year?
No. I mean, yes, but I'm trying to grow as a person.

26. What was the best book you read?
This is How You Lose Her, Hyperbole and a Half.

27. What was your greatest musical discovery?

28. What did you want and get?
Wonderful holidays, wonderful nerdburgh, wonderful friends & family.

29. What did you want and not get?
OTHER THAN THE OBVIOUS, idk. More patience.

30. What was your favourite film of this year?
Only Yesterday, 12 Years a Slave, Gravity.

31. What did you do on your birthday?
I don't recall what I did on my actual birthday, but I had a wonderful party in celebration at some point. Many dark&stormys. I also bought myself tickets to Swan Lake in New York, and had a nice weekend there.

32. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
OTHER THAN THE OBVIOUS, probably more patience.

33. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2013?
Preppy Leslie Knope.

34. What kept you sane?

35. Which celebrity/public figure did you fancy the most?
Gillian Anderson, probably.

36. What political issue stirred you the most?
Jesus christ, who even knows. Voting rights.

37. Who did you miss?

38. Who was the best new person you met?
My new boss, maybe. Some friends-of-friends we've started hanging out with more? I am terrible at remember the timelines of when I meet people!!

39. Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2013.
You literally cannot control everything, so stop trying.

40. Quote a song lyric that sums up your year.

Peel the scars from off my back
I don't need them anymore
You can throw them out or keep them in your mason jars
I've come home

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